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1. Don't keep on nagging. Nagging, to put it simply, can be very annoying. No one likes to listen to someone who's always complaining or scolding, so do your best to avoid this. Constant nagging can possibly turn into a big unnecessary fight.
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Truly, good communication skills are very important. They can go a long way towards making a marriage last,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and they can also be very effective in keeping a simple divorce simple, and avoiding a costly legal battle.
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3. Do learn to appreciate. Experience proves that your spouse will love it when he or she feels appreciated. Being appreciated will give him or her a feeling of importance, which is one of the ingredients to a good and lasting marriage. The problem with most people is that they get so used to being and doing things with each other that showing praise and appreciation hardly happens at all.
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I think of people who have suffered great personal tragedies and have used that life experience to become something bigger and better that they never would have had their life not taken that route. Lance Armstrong’s personal battle with cancer has made him a powerful advocate for cancer research. Iraqi vet Melissa Stockwell credits losing her leg in battle to her win in the Olympics (swimming) for the disabled as well as a highly successful and fulfilling new career in prosthetics. Not that she would have chosen to lose her leg, not at all. It was just that in the acceptance of her loss she was able to choose how to best live her life under these new conditions. How many times have you heard people say that their appreciation for life is so much more intense now that they have suffered a life altering experience?
It all comes down you having the power over your own life to choose what is best for you and what will move you forward. You may not always get the answers you seek but even if you did have all the answers it would not alter your present reality one little bit,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Things would still be what they are versus what you may think they are supposed to be,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Trust in the way your life is unfolding,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Believe there is a reason. Trust that there are many important life lessons and wisdom you will receive if you open yourself up to them,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Have faith that everything will work out,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Consider that the alternative viewpoint is pretty dreary.
Instead of looking for answers to a question that cannot be answered, might there be a different option that will allow us create an answer? What if this earthquake finally mobilizes the world to rebuild Haiti in such a way that the country will be better off than before the quake? What if this earthquake becomes the call to action that has been needed for so long?
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You do not have to believe in any one religion to have faith or trust. You can have a sense of serendipity. You can have faith that nothing happens by coincidence. You can have faith that there might be a bigger plan for you that you cannot see right now. You can have faith that there is a bigger force at work in this world. You can trust that there are good things that always come out of bad, the proverbial silver lining. You can believe in possibilities versus impossibilities. You can adopt the perspective of looking at what might be available in this event that could serve you. You can trust that your life is unfolding in a particular direction for a particular reason.
The catastrophe in Haiti was yet another example of me not being able to get my mind around an event that demonstrates the unfairness of life. Why should a country and a people suffer such extreme tragedies over and over and over again,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]? Why them? Isn’t life hard enough as it is,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]? Why would a supreme being who is supposed to be compassionate allow something like this to happen? Why,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]?
There is no answer. You can speak to any expert,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], any politician or any clergy-person and you will not get an answer. Trying to understand and make sense of what is senseless is not only futile but also dangerously depressing to the human psyche. Trying to understand the whys of the recent earthquake in Haiti is akin to attempting to make sense of the Holocaust or the genocide in Rwanda.
Let us not forget about the faith or trust that must accompany this type of journey in life,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], be it a natural disaster, a divorce, the death of a loved one or any other life altering circumstance. I sincerely believe that we have to be willing to accept that there are not explanations for everything in life. Just think of the questions our children asked us when they were very young: Why is the sky blue? Why do I have to go to bed? Why are there bad people in the world? Why did your friend have to die? Why, why and why?
In life, I have come to accept the fact that there are questions of mine that will never be answered to my satisfaction if at all. I have come to accept the fact that some things in life are beyond my comprehension and I must trust or have faith that certain occurrences are indeed outside the realm of human reason. I have also come to see how these acts of acceptance with their attendant faith about life are concepts that apply to learning how to let go and move on after your divorce.
The media coverage of the earthquake and the subsequent outpouring of aid to that country have revealed incredible reservoirs of human strength and endurance that seemed unimaginable under normal circumstances. That is what can happen when we are faced with extreme conditions: we rise to the occasion and we access strength that we did not know we possessed.
Except that perhaps there are ways to respond to your divorce that might offer you, like the quake victims,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], opportunities for improvement and growth in your life. What if this divorce allows you to heal all the old emotional baggage you have been carrying around for years? What if this divorce allows you to access hidden reserves of strength and intellect that you didn’t know you had? What if this divorce is an opening for you to create more of the things that bring you joy and fulfillment in life? What if this is your call to action to attend to all of the things that you have denied for years? What if your divorce reveals new possibilities for you? What if your marriage had to end in order for you to be who you were really meant to be in this life?
Divorce is similar to a natural disaster in that it can shake the foundation of our life and leave behind devastation. We can go on to examine our marriage and divorce to see where the cracks were in the foundation. We can come to understand many of the reasons for the breakdown of our union with our ex but it still won’t answer the underlying question of ‘why me’?
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Before saying that children should not be exposed to the shocking truth of the murderous rage of the father against the son, Socrates had a hard time accepting the truth of such stories. He said,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],
The stories provide hope for all children and grown ups who are still spellbound by a giant ogre. The stories tell us that there is a force in the universe which will come to our aid if we show the pluck and courage to fight the demon within. The stories are revolutionary in this way. The threatening giant may keep the land under a spell for a thousand years but eventually the child in each of us can grow up and save the kingdom. As parents, if we can free ourselves, then we will not continue the cycle by becoming the tyrant, ourselves.
For example, the modern story, The Emperor’s New Clothes says to the parents that they are self-absorbed hypocrites, and it is the “child” in the story who reveals this. The story itself symbolizes the process of confronting the parent with their character flaws. The child in the story is the only one who has the guile to reveal the naked truth about the king. Because the story is supposedly about someone fatuous and ridiculous,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the parents are not offended. But if they are open to the message, they know the story is about them. Can we grown ups face the truth in these stories? This is the great task, because without it, we will repeat the crimes reported in the tales.
From the earliest times, these stories were told in groups, and adults listened and heard them as well as children. This is still the way it is today. Grown-ups bring their children to see plays like The Lion King, or movies like Coraline. The structure of these fairy tales are barely different than the stories told 5000 years ago. Parents may resonate with them more profoundly than the children,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], as we have a greater appreciation of the depth of their message. Parents were children once, too,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and they had parents, as well. We know the ways we have been wounded by our predecessors and we intuit the ways that we harm our children despite our best intentions.
Before accepting the truth of their own destructive impulses, parents sometimes denigrate fairy stories because they confirm their worst fears about themselves. Denying the reality that we harm our children in big or small ways makes a significant contribution to the problem in the first place. By evading our responsibility, the child ends up believing they are the problem, and this is how they develop shame, or the belief that there is something fundamentally wrong with them. The child comes to believe that if they are being treated poorly by their parents it must be their own fault.
The creators of fairy tales were in touch with their own child-like nature and so understood things from the child's point of view. The intent of the inventors of these stories was less to entertain the child and more to return the parent to the child's world. Parents need to read fairy tales so they can understand how their children experience them. The harsh lesson of the stories is not one that a child can say directly to the parent and so the story does it for them. If we can listen to the hidden message, then we can understand what we need to do to become better parents.
"To put the world in order, we must first put the nation in order; to put the nation in order, we must first put the family in order; to put the family in order; we must first cultivate our personal life; to cultivate our personal life we must first set our hearts right."
"First of all, I said, there was that greatest of all lies, in high places, which the poet told about Uranus, and which was a bad lie too, --I mean what Hesiod says that Uranus did, and how Cronus retaliated on him."
Socrates responded to these tales by saying,
Socrates spoke about one of the earliest Greek myths,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the story of the origins of the universe. In this story, Uranus hated his children so much that he buried them in the darkest place. Then his son, Cronus, castrated him. Cronus received a prophecy that he would be dethroned by his children, so he ate them.
“The doings of Cronus, and the sufferings which in turn his son inflicted upon him. . .ought certainly not to be lightly told to young and thoughtless persons; if possible, they had better be buried in silence. But if there is an absolute necessity for their mention, a chosen few might hear them in a mystery, and they should sacrifice not a common [Eleusinian] pig, but some huge and unprocurable victim; and then the number of the hearers will be very few indeed.”
If parents take responsibility for their own imperfections by sharing the tales with their children, then there can be a relationship based on reality and acceptance. This can help move the child toward self-love and love of others. If parents can take the lessons of the tales to understand their own shortcomings, they can follow the heroic journey presented in the stories, and become King or Queen. This means becoming a great parent.
As we have learned in this series so far, fairy tales are ironic. They tell a truth so shocking that it can only be revealed in innocent children's stories. 2500 years ago, in Plato’s Republic, Socrates said the truth exposed in these stories was so dangerous that they should not be allowed to be read by children at all!
When parents share fairy tales with their children, the parent conveys to the child that they accept what the happy ending of the story means. The parent's main job is to surrender to the great chain of being, and enable their children to become King or Queen themselves. In the end, we need to accept our own death,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and give the universe over to our children's dominion. Even though, this means, as sometimes happens in the stories, that the parents end up in a vat of boiling oil.
The stories then go on to tell us that this does not have to be. You can leave your old ways of being behind. You can liberate yourself from the constrictions imposed on you from without. You can free your capacity for growth become wise, passionate, strong, creative, and loving. You can heal. You can find your heart. The stories tell us that as parents, this is our charge and obligation. The stories demand this of us, because humanity is striving to end this cycle of wounding, shame and self-limitation. In order for the world to survive and thrive, we need to live a life of self-cultivation, where we heal our wounds, liberate our children, and fix a broken world.
What these tales tell us is that the wounded parent has been wounding the child since the beginning of things. Our pain is not the fault of our immediate forebears, our parents,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and the wounds that we inflict as parents are the result of a multi-generational pattern that goes back to the earliest times.
When the child asks about the story, “Is it true?” they are secretly saying, “Mom, I want you to know that the story is true. You hurt me and make me feel bad about myself, but I can't tell you.” When the grown up gives their ironic answer by saying “No, this is just a fairy tale,” the secret message to the child is “I understand now what it is that I do,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and I’ll do whatever I need to so that I won’t do it anymore.”
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As parents, with this knowledge, we have the opportunity to break this cycle and to do our part in healing a broken world. As Confucius said,
The fairy tales are a way for the the true facts to be introduced to the parent without eliciting this denial and getting the child into trouble. Fairy stories try to make it easy on grown ups by critiquing them without the listener knowing what is going on. In this way, the parent can hear these important lessons about themselves.
These tellers of tales validated the child’s emotional reactions to their world. Children respond to the stories because unconsciously they feel grateful that someone acknowledges their reality,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], albeit in disguised, symbolic, form.
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Here is the message we parents are offered when we enter the world of fairy tales. In a great chain from the beginning of time, you were hurt by your forebears and your society. This has resulted in your having a lost heart. This means that you have not fully realized your universe-given capacities for thinking,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], feeling, acting, imagining and loving. You are not fully being that which you are meant to be. The result is that you cannot give to your children all that they need to optimally realize these same potentials themselves. In some way, great or small, you are passing down the wounds to the next generation.
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The questions of Who Am I?, Why Am I Here? Are just beliefs and thoughts. Rather than let automatic programming determine the answers to those questions, deliberately chose the beliefs to answer those questions. Remember the answers to those questions will change. The only ultimate truth, is that there is no ultimate truth,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], just Beliefs & Stories (B.S. for short).
You can create a belief in the present moment that will be your truth, until you decide to create a new truth.
It’s important to remember that you can’t have a feeling without a story creating it, no story, no feeling. Our stories are wonderful allowing us to feel so many different feelings and add so much variety to this game we call life.
Some have mentioned what about the facts of life; birth, death,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], marriage ,etc.. you notice none of those have an emotion attached to them until we wrap a story around it. Feel the word birth by itself, there is nothing until you think of the story associated with the birth of your own child. Then you expand the story and start thinking of the story around being a parent and the stories of responsibility and before you know it you have a novel of emotions and feelings.
I would encourage you to explore that there is no ultimate truth, but just stories and that no story is more valid than any other.
Another interesting point is that you cannot have a feeling or emotion without a story creating the feeling,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Some clarity on the difference between events and stories.
Events just are what they are. Stories are created by our thoughts and beliefs about the event.
The event has no feelings, no drama, it is,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], just what it is.
The stories we create about the event have feeling and emotions.
Most of the time we take these stories so seriously, that we think they are real and get ourselves trapped in them. If we could remember when we were children, we knew we were just making up the stories and they weren’t real. Our stories served the purpose for the moment and once we were done with that moment, we let that story go and created a new one.
Remember playing as children, I’m the good guy and you’re the villain this time and we would play and have so much fun and then change rolls the next time around. We were so serious while playing but when it was done, we remembered we were just playing.
I know that what you have been feeling, feels so real,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but remember, they are just stories, no more real than any other story you could create about a particular event. Try to see the event from a different view point and this will help you create a new story of the event. As you’ve heard before, put yourself in the other persons shoes, that will give you some insights on creating a new story.
Once we realize that our experiences are created by our stories and that stories are very relative and changeable based on the view point we are seeing the event from,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we can change the experience by changing the story.
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We have often heard they hurt my feelings or if that happened I would finally be happy. What someone did or what happened is just an event, it is our story about it our beliefs about it that create our feelings.
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You are not who you think you are, you only experience life through who you think you are.
What’s interesting is that two or more people can be at the exact same event and have completely different stories and feelings about the event. Which story is true? None of the stories are true, they are just stories. That might be hard to believe especially if you have invested thoughts, beliefs and emotions in the story about the event, you know your story is true,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it’s the other persons story that is false. The other person will swear no it’s your story that’s false, their story is the ultimate truth.
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Don’t hold onto old beliefs just because you think it is a truth, it’s just a belief.
It sometimes gets easier to relate with our children, if we can remove our story of being a parent and remove the story of them being our child. Just see each other as fellow human beings will give some wonderful clarity on what we would like to do, rather than what we emotionally feel we have to do. (just a thought, being human is also full of stories)
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Results in other regions of the country varied from encouraging to disappointing. The percentage of smokers living in the Birmingham area who had switched to electronic cigarettes was 68 percent. Edinburgh and Glasgow polled 55 and 50 percent respectively. Manchester,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], unfortunately, came in at the bottom of the list with a disappointing 15 percent of smokers who had given up tobacco in favour of the smokeless cigarette. However, as the survey rightly concludes,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], even if only a small number of smokers are spurred on to make the switch, then that’s good news for the country and the NHS as fewer people will be damaging their bodies through the continued inhalation of toxic fumes and chemicals.
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As he described, "Jennifer is constantly on my back for every little thing. I just don't want to hear it anymore, so I retreat. I'm tired of the nagging…"
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Eric appeared tired and barely present during our first meeting. According to Eric, Jennifer was like a boxer on the offensive, shadowing his every move, and just waiting for the right opportunity to pounce.
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As she described, "Eric runs away from things. He'd rather put his head in the sand than face reality..."
You and your spouse/partner may have different conflict-styles (different ways of handling stress). And it is these differences that can fuel conflict, even when you both want a positive outcome.
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Her goal-need during times of stress and conflict is to remain engaged and connected with Eric in order to resolve the upheavals and reach a harmonious outcome. So she pursues Eric.
Couples often overlook the fact that they have common goals, especially when marital and relationship problems are outweighing the positives.
~Jennifer's connection-need is heightened when she feels distressed;
Meet Jennifer and Eric: immersed in marital conflict
Jennifer's solution (perceived as "nagging" by Eric in those moments) and Eric's solution (perceived as "running away" by Jennifer in those moments) are on opposite ends of the coping spectrum, yet they're both designed to turn a troubling situation around (to end conflict and restore peace).
Jennifer's perspective of a relationship problem:
Eric's goal-need during times of stress and conflict is to disengage from what he perceives as the source of his distress (Jennifer) in order to emotionally regroup and ultimately reach a harmonious outcome. So he withdraws from Jennifer.
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Fret not, for I'm here to show you how you can have fun during the holidays and enjoy all your favorite holiday treats, _without_ putting on any extra pounds.
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But don't you just hate it when you step on the scales after the holidays, and discover you've put on weight?
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1. Give yourself permission - Go ahead and eat anything you want during the holiday season. Halloween, Christmas, New Year's, it doesn't matter. Yes, you can have all your favorite foods. Isn't it refreshing to know that you don't have to abstain from your perennial favorites? You see, we tend to want more of what we cannot have. The more you try to stop yourself from eating something, the more you want to eat it. And when you do give in to the temptation, you'll tend to overeat. Here's the secret: It's not "all or nothing". Have anything you want, as long as you remember not to go overboard and consume too much.
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Here comes Halloween... and the start of the "season of feasting" for a lot of folks around here.
It's become a sort of time-honored "tradition" for Americans to put on weight between Halloween and New Year's Day. Some would even say it's to be expected -- "After all, it's the holidays!", they say.
2. Be clear of your goals - There must be a reason why you want to keep your weight down. If you don't already have a reason, now's the time to sit down and think of as many as possible. This step is critical if you want to be able to enjoy your holidays and maintain your weight throughout. You need to be crystal-clear about your "Why". Why do you want to lose weight? How would you feel if you end up putting on weight? Conversely, how would you feel if you can go through the holidays and yet maintain your current weight? Think about these questions carefully, and build up your arsenal of "reasons why". The next time you are tempted to overeat,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], recall these reasons again and they'll help you to stay in control.
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Now, I love the holidays. And I bet you do too. Who wouldn't love all the great treats and wonderful foods that just seem to spring up around us during the holiday season,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], right?
6. Use the healthier versions - Many of the sweets and treats offer you a choice of healthier versions. So when you can, please do opt for the low-calorie, reduced sugar, or lower fat varieties.
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